Relationships

Boundaries With In-Laws, How to Set Them as a Couple Without Starting a War

Boundaries with in-laws, set as a team: why in-law stress becomes couple stress, getting on the same page first, example scripts for visits, advice, money, gifts and holidays, after a new baby, culture and family expectations, pushback, repeated line-crossing and a partner who won't set the boundary.

How to Support Someone With Chronic Illness, What to Say and What Actually Helps

Supporting someone with chronic illness over the long haul: believing them on good-looking days, what to say and skip, flexible plans, practical help without taking over, support for partners, staying connected, mood changes and looking after yourself.